Nowadays,“generation gap”has gradually become a common phenomenon all over the world. Experiencing different time, as a result, causes the difference between parents and children in tastes, the method they deal with problems and values.
This case may more easily happen in teenagers. The reason lies in they are young, they have strong passion for freedom, and they like showing themselves off. Then it is no wonder that arguments often arise between their parents and them, which always make the parents worried. They can hardly figure out what their children are thinking about. Because they wear strange clothes, listen noisy music and even walk around town with tattoos and pierces all over their bodies. Nevertheless, in teenager’ eyes, their parents are out of date and conservative. They may talk with their friends more often than their parents. In a word, ‘generation gap’ is an interminable problem.
Seriously, how to bridge the generation gap? In my opinion, first, show respect. The mutual respect can play an important role in avoiding conflicts. Second, listen more than talk. It’s no doubt that it is a very efficient way to keep the conversation longer. At last, keep humors, this can make the talk friendly.
Despite the fact that parents may be worried about the generation gap between their children and themselves. But as we all know, with time going by, children gradually grow old and ripe. And then they will come to understand their parents.
如今,“代沟”已逐渐成为一种普遍现象世界各地。经历不同的时间,因此,导致父母和孩子之间的区别在品味,他们处理问题的方法和价值观。
本例中可能更容易发生在青少年。原因在于他们年轻,他们有强烈的热爱自由,然后他们喜欢显示自己。难怪争论他们的父母和他们之间经常出现,这总是让父母担心。他们很难找到他们的孩子在想些什么。因为他们穿奇怪的衣服,听着嘈杂的音乐,甚至走在城里的纹身和刺入自己的身体。然而,少年的眼睛,他们的父母是过时的和保守的。他们可能比他们的父母更经常与他们的朋友。总之,“代沟”是一个冗长的问题。
严重的是,如何缩小代沟呢?在我看来,首先,尊重。相互尊重可以发挥重要作用在避免冲突。第二,听多说话。毫无疑问,这是一个非常有效的方法来保持谈话了。最后,保持幽默,这可以使友好交谈。
尽管父母可能会担心他们的孩子之间的代沟和他们自己。但我们都知道,随着时间的经过,孩子逐渐变老和成熟。然后他们会开始理解父母。